
This is an excellent thing to teach your daughter when you want her to be a single mother. Encourage her to strive for ‘independence’ and she will become an inferior wife, or ‘partner’ if you prefer.
An independent woman has no need for a partner. That’s what it means to be independent. There is nothing a man can provide for her that she cannot provide for herself. This is what feminism taught you. Your daughter needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. This belief is somewhat repellent to most men.
However, it would be nice to have a guy around to do the housework. Your daughter will have no trouble finding guys who appreciate her independence. Men love relationships without strings. These man/boys will vanish the moment she infringes on their own independence. Insisting that he do housework will send him scurrying in search of a more independent woman.
Your daughter should not expect my son to be more loyal to her than she is to him. She should not expect him to give her anything unless it benefits him to do so.
I taught my sons that love requires sacrifice. I taught them that their families are relying on them for protection, provisions, and stability. I taught them to reject women who are unwilling to become dependents.
In a healthy relationship, both partners are servants. Each partner places their personal needs and wants BELOW the needs of their family members. Taking out the trash, scrubbing toilets, cooking, and washing dishes are not the menial tasks of a lowly slave. They are dramatic displays of affection. This is what sacrificial love looks like.
Teaching your daughter that relationships are just struggles for dominance is a great way to prepare her for life as a bitter, lonely old maid.
(Ephesians 5:21) Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
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People like freedom, not slavery.
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And water is wet !